This page will help answer some of your fostering questions. If you can’t find the answer to something you want to know, you’ll find our contact details at the bottom

Fostering general questions

Fostering offers children a safe and caring family, usually geographically close to their birth family’s home, while they are unable to live with their own. It provides an opportunity for other professionals to work with the birth family to help resolve their issues.

Every 20 minutes another child comes into care needing a foster family in the UK. And every day there are about 65,000 children living with 55,000 foster families. (Fostering Network).

We currently have more than 250 children in care in the Reading area. Some of these are currently staying out of area, away from relatives, their school and friends. This is because there’s a shortage of people coming forward to be foster carers in Reading.

Children come into care for many different reasons. Sometimes it is because of a parent’s short-term illness or a temporary problem within the family that requires the children to have alternative care. Some have experienced domestic violence or witnessed drug and alcohol misuse. Others have been abused or neglected.

Becoming a foster carer

You need to be over 21 but we have no upper age limit.

No you don’t. As long as you have a spare room and space for a child you can own or rent your own home. If you do rent, then you will need to have written permission from your landlord before you start the assessment process.

We will only place children if they can have their own room, as we believe that in a time of change and turmoil, it is especially important that foster children have their own space for their comfort and security.

Yes, in fact they can be considered an asset to fostering. Your pets will be assessed throughout your application process to look at things like their behaviour and temperament.

So we can keep children in the same schools and around their friends, our main aim is to find foster carers who live within 20km of Reading.

You can! It would be good to consider what impact it will have on them and how they may feel about it. You should explain that:
  • A foster child is not just a playmate.
  • Life will be different at home and they will have to share your time, toys and space.
  • The foster child will need care and support from everyone in the family but you will still make ‘special’ time for them.

Children in care can need extra attention so it is vital you consider this in relation to the needs of your own children. How your children react to another child living in your home can make or break a placement. We have a support network called the ‘Foster Squad’ for siblings of foster children which meets regularly for fun and activities.

You can. We will look to see what kind of experience you have of working with children and caring. We would encourage you to consider what impact a child will have on your life. If you think you need more experience with working with children, then volunteering with local child care services is a great way to gain this.

Yes, it is possible. Please speak to us and explain your disability. As part of your application you will need to have a medical assessment to ensure you are able to carry out duties as a foster carer.

No diagnosis can prevent you from fostering. You will be asked to have a medical report as part of your assessment process and we need all prospective foster carers to consider the emotional impact of fostering on their health too.

We believe that fostering is a job in itself. Having too many job commitments elsewhere would impinge on the flexibility and the ability to react to a crisis situation.

We ask that in a two parent household one person is fully focused on the fostering, having no work commitments elsewhere. For a single applicant it would be essential that if they work, they have very flexible work arrangements, and would only be working part time.

It is not required but we would need you to be a full-time resident of the UK.

A criminal conviction doesn’t automatically rule you out of fostering, but you must declare all the details to us. An enhanced Disclosure and Barring Service (DBS) check will be carried out on you and anyone else in the household aged 17 or over. Each application will be considered individually, but we’ll not progress your application where there are convictions for offences against children or other serious offences.

We believe children should be placed with foster families who are able to meet their needs, including religious needs. However you would also need to consider how you would feel if a child was placed with you that did not share your religion, and how you would feel about discussing issues such as alternative religious beliefs or sexuality, whilst still making sure you can abide by the fostering agencies’ own policies. It is important that foster carers are tolerant and open to other religious beliefs, and that they are non-judgmental in this respect.

Yes, you can. We have children for whom English isn’t their first language and it can be helpful for them to live in a home where their first language is spoken. You will need good level of spoken and written English for communicating with other professionals.

Foster carers are approved to look after children and young people across a wide age range from birth to 18. You can put a preference for certain age ranges depending on your circumstances.

Yes. You can speak to our fostering team and other foster carers about this. If you do decide that it will be too difficult, then you might like to consider adoption.

If you, or the child, are unhappy with the arrangements then it is within everyone’s interests for Brighter Futures for Children IFA to make alternative arrangements. We will explain how this works in your assessment process.

Fostering with Brighter Futures for Children IFA

Once the application is accepted you will be invited to attend a ‘Skills to Foster’ prep group. We provide core training such as; Child Protection and Safeguarding, First Aid, Child Development, Attachment, Resilience and Effective Communication which are required at the start of your journey. There will also be ongoing training available once you are approved as a foster carer.

Once you have been approved as a foster carer, you will be assigned a supervising social worker who will be your key contact and you will have monthly contact with them. You will have a mentor for the first year, as well as foster carer support groups. You will also have opportunities to meet other foster carers and share experiences with them through meetings and social events. We will also send you a welcome pack and regular newsletters.

Yes. You will receive a foster carer fee. You can be a Level 1, 2 or 3 foster carer and there is a different allowance based on this. You will get between £106 and £425 per week.

Depending on the age of the foster child, you will get an allowance from £153 to £265.

Once you enquire, we will get in touch and have a chat where we will ask you some questions and you can find out more about becoming a foster carer. We will then come out to you for an ‘initial visit’ where we will discuss the role in more depth and see if your home is suitable. From here, the two stage assessment process begins. Stage 1 involves referees and legal, health and criminal checks. Stage 2 involves the assessment report where we will visit you at home for a minimum of 8 sessions. During these, we will be looking at the qualities and experience you already have and help you develop any additional skills and knowledge to provide good quality care to a child who is fostered. Once these stages have been completed, we will present your report to the Foster Panel who will make a recommendation to approve you as a foster carer.

Our target is 6 months but this depends on the checks we have to do.

Short-term, long-term / permanent, emergency, respite, mother and child, family and friends, short breaks, supported lodgings. You can find out more on our website.

We are non-profit and deliver a fostering service on behalf of Reading Borough Council. That means we work closely with all the children’s services provided in the Reading area plus other public sector organisations. This means we can offer a more holistic provision of care for the child you may be looking after.

Write to:
Steffi Roth (BFfC IFA Registered Manager)
Brighter Futures for Children IFA
Bridge Street

Call: 0118 9373740

Please read our complaints procedure.

Enquire about fostering

Thank you for your interest in fostering with Brighter Futures for Children’s IFA!

You can foster if:
  • You have a spare room
  • You are over 21
  • You live within 20 miles of Reading

When you have completed the form, we will be in touch with you via phone and email to discuss your enquiry. There is no obligation or pressure to commit by completing this form, we are here to help you decide if fostering is right for you.

Data protection

Brighter Futures for Children's IFA will keep your information in accordance with the Data Protection Act 2018. You can read about how we use your data in our privacy policy.

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